Ladislav Jakl, publicista a rocker<\/p>\n
L\u00e1ska je l\u00e1ska. No to jist\u011b. A krump\u00e1\u010d je krump\u00e1\u010d. To jsme ale v pozn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bta moc nepokro\u010dili. Pokro\u010d\u00edme, kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee pojem \u201el\u00e1ska\u201c m\u00e1 vlastn\u011b dva obsahy. Je to ozna\u010den\u00ed specifick\u00e9ho typu pozitivn\u00ed emoce, ale je to tak\u00e9 ozna\u010den\u00ed form\u00e1tu jist\u00e9ho vztahu. Dvoustrann\u00e9ho, nebo i oboustrann\u00e9ho. A v n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech i multilater\u00e1ln\u00edho.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n No, zn\u00ed to tedy stra\u0161liv\u011b sucharsky, kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk za\u010dne pitvat smysl a v\u00fdznam l\u00e1sky, nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho a nej\u010dist\u0161\u00edho citu ve vesm\u00edru. Ale i pivo m\u016f\u017eeme podrobit chemick\u00e9, biochemick\u00e9, fyzik\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010di mikrobiologick\u00e9 anal\u00fdze, ani\u017e by n\u00e1m p\u0159estalo chutnat. No tak si poj\u010fme chvilku za analyzovat l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n Nejprve tedy k onomu v\u00fdznamu term\u00ednu \u201el\u00e1ska\u201c ve smyslu intimn\u00ed nitern\u00e9 emoce. Emoce tvo\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 vnit\u0159n\u00ed sv\u011bt, b\u00fdvaj\u00ed produktem n\u011bjak\u00e9ho pro\u017eitku a n\u011bkdy naopak b\u00fdvaj\u00ed tou nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed motivac\u00ed k z\u00e1sadn\u00edm \u010din\u016fm. V posledn\u00ed dob\u011b je m\u00f3dn\u00ed podrobovat n\u00e1s jist\u00e9 form\u011b vivisekce. Tedy zkoumat, jak\u00e9 emoce stoj\u00ed v pozad\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00fdch na\u0161ich \u010din\u016f nebo postoj\u016f. Nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e m\u00edsto zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1m jist\u00e9 emoce podsouvat, a pak hodnotit, jak\u00fd emo\u010dn\u00ed z\u00e1klad na\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u00e1.<\/p>\n Nevyzpytateln\u00e9 emoce<\/strong><\/p>\n A kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo ur\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee jsme n\u011bkter\u00fd krok u\u010dinili t\u0159eba z nen\u00e1visti, a ne nap\u0159\u00edklad ze strachu, z l\u00e1sky \u010di ze zv\u011bdavosti, m\u016f\u017ee to m\u00edt pro n\u00e1s dokonce i trestn\u011bpr\u00e1vn\u00ed d\u016fsledky. Anebo t\u0159eba takov\u00e9 \u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed emoc\u00ed. To u\u017e v\u016fbec nen\u00ed legrace. To je v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b n\u011bkter\u00fdch emoc\u00ed trestn\u00e9 u\u017e samo o sob\u011b.<\/p>\n Nemus\u00edme b\u00fdt ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u00f3diov\u00fdm um\u011blcem, abychom mohli v r\u016fzn\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch v r\u016fzn\u00e9m rozsahu a v r\u016fzn\u00e9 intenzit\u011b v lidech kolem sebe \u0161\u00ed\u0159it v\u0161elijak\u00e9 emoce. T\u0159eba radost. Nebo odpor. Nebo obavy. Nebo hrdost. Nen\u00e1vist. L\u00e1sku. Lhostejnost. A aby to nebylo tak jednoduch\u00e9, zdaleka ne v\u017edy rozhodujeme o tom, jak\u00e9 emoce n\u00e1\u0161 krok nakonec zp\u016fsob\u00ed. Zda cht\u011bn\u00e9, \u010di naopak zcela bezd\u011b\u010dn\u00e9.<\/p>\n Zde se tedy hrab\u00e1n\u00ed se v emoc\u00edch coby motivac\u00edch n\u011bkter\u00fdch \u010din\u016f, pop\u0159\u00edpad\u011b hrab\u00e1n\u00ed se v \u00fadajn\u00e9m \u010di skute\u010dn\u00e9m, v\u011bdom\u00e9m \u010di nev\u011bdom\u00e9m \u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00fdch emoc\u00ed pohybuje na dost tenk\u00e9m led\u011b. Hrab\u00e1n\u00ed a prokazov\u00e1n\u00ed. Ale dne\u0161n\u00ed spole\u010dnost n\u00e1m t\u00edm d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo, \u017ee j\u00ed pat\u0159\u00edme cele, i ve sv\u00e9m nitru. \u017de j\u00ed pat\u0159\u00edme tot\u00e1ln\u011b.<\/p>\n Term\u00edn \u201etotalitn\u00ed spole\u010dnost\u201c nen\u00ed jen n\u00e1lepkou \u010di fr\u00e1z\u00ed. Je to terminus technicus pro takov\u00fd typ diktatury, kter\u00e1 si nevysta\u010d\u00ed s ekonomickou a politickou moc\u00ed ve vertik\u00e1ln\u00edm smyslu (od \u201etr\u016fnu\u201c k n\u00e1m dol\u016f), ale kter\u00fd m\u00e1 ambici ovl\u00e1dat i horizont\u00e1ln\u00ed vazby mezi lidmi navz\u00e1jem, tedy \u00fapln\u011b \u201etot\u00e1ln\u011b\u201c m\u00edt \u017eivot \u010dlov\u011bka pod mocenskou kontrolou, a to a\u017e do jeho nitra. A odpov\u011bzme si ka\u017ed\u00fd s\u00e1m, ve kter\u00fdch dob\u00e1ch r\u016fzn\u00e9 diktatury tuto charakteristiku opravdu napl\u0148ovaly, nebo zda se k n\u00ed v\u00edce nebl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed spole\u010densk\u00e9 upo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 dosud diktaturou b\u011b\u017en\u011b nenaz\u00fdv\u00e1me.<\/p>\n N\u011bkdy by se zd\u00e1lo, \u017ee l\u00e1sky nikdy nen\u00ed dost, ale asi to tak nebude, proto\u017ee to by jedna l\u00e1ska ne\u017e\u00e1rlila na druhou a jedna druh\u00e9 konkurovala. L\u00e1skou jsme si za posledn\u00edch mnoho generac\u00ed zvykli naz\u00fdvat i oddan\u00fd a ob\u011btav\u00fd vztah k rodn\u00e9mu kraji, k vlasti, k n\u00e1rodu. Jen\u017ee vl\u00e1dnouc\u00ed moc b\u00fdv\u00e1 r\u00e1da nejen uzn\u00e1v\u00e1na, respektov\u00e1na, v\u00e1\u017eena, ct\u011bna \u010di ob\u00e1v\u00e1na, ona v\u017edy chce b\u00fdt tak\u00e9 milov\u00e1na. A proto jsou star\u00e9 dobr\u00e9 a osv\u011bd\u010den\u00e9 tradi\u010dn\u00ed l\u00e1sky na p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eku t\u011bm konjunktur\u00e1ln\u00edm, mocensk\u00fdm, ideologick\u00fdm a propagandistick\u00fdm. Proto n\u00e1m byla sv\u00e9ho \u010dasu vnucov\u00e1na l\u00e1ska k Sov\u011btsk\u00e9mu svazu, proto\u017ee poslu\u0161nost, strach \u010di respekt vl\u00e1dc\u016fm nesta\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n L\u00e1sky \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed a ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n Nyn\u00ed je l\u00e1ska k vlasti a n\u00e1rodu pova\u017eov\u00e1na za nemoc, za \u0161ovinismus, za n\u00e1ckovstv\u00ed, proto\u017ee pr\u00fd zab\u00edr\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho m\u00edsta v na\u0161ich srdc\u00edch. M\u00edsta, na kter\u00e9 si d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u00e1rok dnes prosazovan\u00e1 l\u00e1ska k Evropsk\u00e9 unii, l\u00e1ska k exotick\u00fdm imigrant\u016fm, k polysexu\u00e1l\u016fm, k idej\u00edm liber\u00e1ln\u00ed demokracie, k nejmenovan\u00e9 \u201eplanet\u011b\u201c nebo t\u0159eba k leti\u0161ti.<\/p>\n Ale zp\u011bt k l\u00e1sce z b\u00e1sn\u00ed a milostn\u00fdch psan\u00ed\u010dek, k l\u00e1sce z citov\u00fdch vzplanut\u00ed i k l\u00e1sce trval\u00e9, v\u011brn\u00e9, poctiv\u00e9 a \u010dist\u00e9. L\u00e1ska je hlavn\u011b n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e obdiv. Obdivujeme p\u0159ednosti. Milovat ale m\u016f\u017eeme i slabosti. Milovan\u00fdm slovem dne\u0161ka je \u201eudr\u017eitelnost\u201c, tak si ho vyp\u016fj\u010dme i v t\u00e9to souvislosti. Udr\u017eiteln\u00e1 l\u00e1ska nem\u016f\u017ee existovat bez d\u016fv\u011bry. A d\u016fv\u011bra m\u00e1 daleko bl\u00ed\u017ee k v\u00ed\u0159e ne\u017e ke zku\u0161enosti \u010di p\u0159edpokladu. D\u016fv\u011bra nen\u00ed v\u00fdsledkem kalkulu. D\u016fv\u011bra ke druh\u00e9mu jen m\u00e1lo souvis\u00ed s hodnocen\u00edm toho druh\u00e9ho. D\u016fv\u011bra je niternou vlastnost\u00ed d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uj\u00edc\u00edho, nikoli \u201en\u00e1rokem\u201c d\u016fv\u011bryhodn\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n A t\u00edm se dost\u00e1v\u00e1me k citliv\u00e9mu momentu na\u0161\u00ed doby. A toti\u017e k tomu, jakou paseku ve vztaz\u00edch milostn\u00fdch, partnersk\u00fdch, ale i rodinn\u00fdch, p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fdch \u010di kolegi\u00e1ln\u00edch um\u00ed nad\u011blat dne\u0161n\u00ed hysterick\u00e1 p\u0159epolitizovanost. Prosakuje do intimna jako travex ke ko\u0159en\u016fm vegetace a krade lidem zp\u016fsobilost d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. Vol\u00ed\u0161 Trumpa? K\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 demokraty? Orb\u00e1na? Alternativu pro N\u011bmecko? Tv\u00e9 argumenty nejsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, proto\u017ee ty j\u00e1 neuzn\u00e1v\u00e1m. Mus\u00ed\u0161 m\u00edt tedy ke sv\u00e9 politick\u00e9 orientaci jin\u00fd d\u016fvod. Citov\u00fd. Tak\u017ee ti u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eu v\u011b\u0159it.<\/p>\n V Americe tenhle jev skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159\u00edmo explodoval po zvolen\u00ed Donalda Trumpa americk\u00fdm prezidentem. Mluvilo se nap\u0159\u00edklad o rozvodu Lynn Aronbergov\u00e9, man\u017eelky st\u00e1tn\u00edho z\u00e1stupce ve floridsk\u00e9m okrese Palm Beach Davea Aronberga. Lynn k \u017e\u00e1dosti o rozvod uvedla, \u017ee ona je v\u011brnou republik\u00e1nkou a podporovatelkou prezidenta Trumpa, zat\u00edmco jej\u00ed man\u017eel nikoli, a \u017ee se t\u00edm v man\u017eelstv\u00ed c\u00edtila st\u00e1le izolovan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n Slavn\u00e1 floridsk\u00e1 advok\u00e1tn\u00ed kancel\u00e1\u0159 Charlese D. Jamiesona k tomu u\u010dinila ohromuj\u00edc\u00ed zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee pr\u00fd by tato dvojice mohla sv\u00e9mu rozvodu p\u0159edej\u00edt, kdyby v\u00edce \u010dasu v\u011bnovala vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9mu prozkoum\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch politick\u00fdch n\u00e1zor\u016f. \u010clov\u011bku se chce dodat, \u017ee rozvodu lze p\u0159edej\u00edt i vra\u017edou p\u0159i eskalaci takov\u00e9ho vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed. Advok\u00e1tn\u00ed kancel\u00e1\u0159, za jej\u00edch\u017e slu\u017eby klienti plat\u00ed p\u011bkn\u00e9 pen\u00edze, tak\u00e9 objevn\u011b konstatuje, \u017ee politika m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt u man\u017eel\u016f rozd\u011bluj\u00edc\u00edm t\u00e9matem, a \u017ee va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed pr\u00fd bude m\u00edt v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u0161anci na p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed, pokud jsou va\u0161e politick\u00e9 n\u00e1zory podobn\u00e9 jako n\u00e1zory budouc\u00edho man\u017eela. No to by \u010dlov\u011bka fakt nenapadlo.<\/p>\n Politika v l\u00e1sce<\/strong><\/p>\n Jen\u017ee ona se konfliktn\u00ed politick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata vyno\u0159uj\u00ed ne\u010dekan\u011b. Miluj\u00edc\u00ed se lid\u00e9 o sob\u011b m\u016f\u017eou v\u011bd\u011bt mnoho, ale m\u00e1lokdy mohou tu\u0161it, jak se kdo z nich zachov\u00e1, a\u017e p\u0159ijdou naprosto nov\u00e1 spole\u010densk\u00e1 t\u00e9mata, jakkoli postoj k nim vyv\u011br\u00e1 z hlub\u0161\u00edch hodnotov\u00fdch pramen\u016f. Co p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, rodin, kamar\u00e1d\u016f a zamilovan\u00fdch dvojic se nav\u011bky rozkmot\u0159ilo, kdy\u017e zvolili Milo\u0161e Zemana prezidentem, kdy\u017e vypukla migra\u010dn\u00ed krize, kdy\u017e jsme propadli proticovidov\u00e9 panice nebo kdy\u017e n\u00e1s ovl\u00e1dl boj s podneb\u00edm.<\/p>\n Ono to i s t\u00edm Trumpem za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 b\u00fdt v USA docela p\u0159edm\u011btem r\u016fzn\u00fdch pozorov\u00e1n\u00ed. Studie spole\u010dnosti Wakefield Research z Arlingtonu ve Virginii tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd des\u00e1t\u00fd p\u00e1r, sezdan\u00fd \u010di nesezdan\u00fd, ukon\u010dil sv\u016fj vztah kv\u016fli n\u00e1zoru na Trumpovo prezidentov\u00e1n\u00ed. Sociologov\u00e9 u\u017e na tento fenom\u00e9n vym\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed nov\u00e1torskou terminologii.<\/p>\n \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd d\u016fv\u011brn\u00fd vztah, p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fd \u010di milostn\u00fd, nem\u016f\u017ee trvale chodit kolem hork\u00e9 ka\u0161e a obch\u00e1zet aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed spole\u010densk\u00e1 t\u00e9mata. Je ale nutn\u00e9 kv\u016fli nim sv\u00e9 vztahy vra\u017edit? Ano, l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee skon\u010dit. I p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed. Ale po\u0159\u00e1d tu budeme \u017e\u00edt mezi lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed hodn\u011b z\u00e1sadn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed kolem sebe vid\u00ed velmi odli\u0161n\u011b. Jsme tu na jedn\u00e9 lodi. Nemus\u00edme ml\u010det a nemus\u00edme se shodovat. S lidmi \u00fapln\u011b odli\u0161n\u00e9ho nejhlub\u0161\u00edho spole\u010densk\u00e9ho zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00ed si asi nebudeme rozum\u011bt ani v tom, kolik je zrovna hodin. Ale takov\u00fdch ve skute\u010dnosti moc nen\u00ed.<\/p>\n A s t\u011bmi ostatn\u00edmi se budeme r\u016fznit, p\u0159\u00edt se, argumentovat. A tak\u00e9 se shodovat v mnoha jin\u00fdch v\u011bcech, kde se na\u0161e z\u00e1jmy a postoje zas tak neli\u0161\u00ed. Vztahy, partnerstv\u00ed, man\u017eelstv\u00ed, p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a l\u00e1ska, to v\u0161e jsou p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 drahocenn\u00e9 hodnoty na to, abychom je zab\u00edjeli jen proto, \u017ee n\u00e1m je ten \u010di onen politik sympatick\u00fd nebo ne. Nebo herec. Nebo rockov\u00fd muzikant.<\/p>\n Ps\u00e1no pro kv\u011btnov\u00e9 \u010d\u00edslo \u010dasopisu TO<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ladislav Jakl, publicista a rocker L\u00e1ska je l\u00e1ska. No to jist\u011b. A krump\u00e1\u010d je krump\u00e1\u010d. To jsme ale v pozn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bta moc nepokro\u010dili. Pokro\u010d\u00edme, kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee pojem \u201el\u00e1ska\u201c m\u00e1 vlastn\u011b dva obsahy. Je to ozna\u010den\u00ed specifick\u00e9ho typu pozitivn\u00ed emoce, ale je to tak\u00e9 ozna\u010den\u00ed form\u00e1tu jist\u00e9ho vztahu. Dvoustrann\u00e9ho, nebo i oboustrann\u00e9ho. A v n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ozvena","category-publikovane-clanky"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14234"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14234\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14235,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14234\/revisions\/14235"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}