{"id":515,"date":"2010-08-30T10:35:25","date_gmt":"2010-08-30T09:35:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/?p=515"},"modified":"2010-08-30T10:35:25","modified_gmt":"2010-08-30T09:35:25","slug":"svet-stastnych-uzlu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladislavjakl.cz\/?p=515","title":{"rendered":"Sv\u011bt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch uzl\u016f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uboh\u00fd Ond\u0159ej \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd byl redakc\u00ed MfDnes pov\u011b\u0159en  naps\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dl\u00e1nku, kter\u00fd by co nejv\u00edc pozur\u00e1\u017eel a zesm\u011b\u0161nil prezidenta  republiky, t\u0159eba prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm jeho nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch spolupracovn\u00edk\u016f. Petra  H\u00e1jka a mne.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"t2\"><\/a><!--more--><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Na Petra H\u00e1jka si tento \u010dlov\u011bk vy\u0161l\u00e1pl <a href=\"http:\/\/zpravy.idnes.cz\/klausovi-muzi-co-vedi-uplne-vsechno-dbm-\/domaci.asp?c=A100814_090135_domaci_vem\">http:\/\/zpravy.idnes.cz\/klausovi-muzi-co-vedi-uplne-vsechno-dbm-\/domaci.asp?c=A100814_090135_domaci_vem<\/a> kv\u016fli tomu, \u017ee si pan H\u00e1jek dovolil zpochybnit velmi spornou, sv\u00fdm  pojet\u00edm v\u00fdst\u0159edn\u00ed a pro mnoh\u00e9 rodi\u010de zcela nemor\u00e1ln\u00ed a nep\u0159ijatelnou  p\u0159\u00edru\u010dku Ministerstva \u0161kolstv\u00ed, doporu\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed u\u010ditel\u016fm, jak maj\u00ed d\u011btem  vykl\u00e1dat o soulo\u017ei.<\/p>\n<p>Na tuto p\u0159\u00edru\u010dku i na samu v\u00fdchovu ve v\u011bcech sexu existuj\u00ed velmi  rozd\u00edln\u00e9 n\u00e1zory. Pro mnoh\u00e9 jde o pokrok k\u00a0otev\u0159enosti, pro jin\u00e9 o  nep\u0159ijateln\u00e9 zasahov\u00e1n\u00ed do pr\u00e1v rodiny, rodi\u010d\u016f a o degradaci sexu na  z\u00e1bavn\u00fd t\u011blocvik. Na toto t\u00e9ma se vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed m\u00e1my a t\u00e1tov\u00e9, pedagogov\u00e9,  aktivist\u00e9 r\u016fzn\u00fdch n\u00e1zor\u016f, novin\u00e1\u0159i, politici. Jde p\u0159ece nepochybn\u011b o  v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 ve\u0159ejn\u00e9 t\u00e9ma.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0159eba j\u00e1 si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee st\u00e1t m\u00e1 b\u00fdt nanejv\u00fd\u0161 opatrn\u00fd p\u0159i kroc\u00edch,  kter\u00e9 by mohly v\u00e9st k\u00a0dojmu, \u017ee to on je jak\u00fdmsi velk\u00fdm rodi\u010dem, jemu\u017e  v\u0161echny d\u011bti pat\u0159\u00ed a kter\u00fdm on m\u00e1 v\u0161t\u011bpovat jist\u00e9 hodnotov\u00e9 vzorce i  proti v\u016fli rodiny.<\/p>\n<p>Ale o to te\u010f nejde, n\u00e1zory mohou b\u00fdt r\u016fzn\u00e9. Jde o to, \u017ee \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd  zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148uje pana H\u00e1jka ne pro jeho n\u00e1zor (kter\u00fd nen\u00ed v\u00a0t\u00e9to debat\u011b nijak  ojedin\u011bl\u00fd), ale pro s\u00e1m fakt, \u017ee si Petr H\u00e1jek v\u016fbec dovolil na toto  t\u00e9ma ve\u0159ejn\u011b promluvit. A \u017ee pr\u00fd si t\u00edm pan H\u00e1jek p\u0159isuzuje roli  odborn\u00edka na sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchovu.<\/p>\n<p>Podle \u0160\u0165astn\u00e9ho tedy na toto t\u00e9ma sm\u011bj\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u011b mluvit pouze  \u201eodborn\u00edci na sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchovu\u201c. A pokud promluv\u00ed kdokoli jin\u00fd, pak si  na takov\u00e9ho odborn\u00edka hraje a zaslou\u017e\u00ed posm\u011bch. Dobr\u00e1. A koho \u017ee tedy  s\u00e1m \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd za takov\u00e9ho odborn\u00edka pova\u017euje? Radima Uzla. Toho toti\u017e  \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd nech\u00e1v\u00e1 komentovat H\u00e1jkova slova. A do\u010dkal se o\u010dek\u00e1vateln\u00e9  Uzlovy reakce: \u201erozumn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk se takhle nem\u016f\u017ee vyjad\u0159ovat.\u201c Vida. Tak  pan Uzel je tou autoritou, kter\u00e1 se podle \u0160\u0165astn\u00e9ho sm\u00ed vyslovit nejen  k\u00a0tomu, kdo je rozumn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, ale hlavn\u011b k\u00a0t\u00e9matu sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchovy na  \u0161kol\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<p>A co podle \u0160\u0165astn\u00e9ho zrovna Uzla kvalifikuje k\u00a0takov\u00e9mu t\u00e9matu? Je  snad Uzel d\u011btsk\u00fd psycholog? Pedagog? Pedagogick\u00fd metodik nebo teoretik?  Nikoli. Podle \u0160\u0165astn\u00e9ho je Uzel kvalifikov\u00e1n ve v\u011bci v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed t\u00edm,  \u017ee je to sexuolog. Zaj\u00edmav\u00e9. Na\u0161e d\u011bti tedy maj\u00ed u\u010dit sexuologov\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Jen\u017ee on pan Uzel nen\u00ed ani sexuolog. Je to gynekolog, sexuologem se  jen nech\u00e1v\u00e1 titulovat, proto\u017ee slovo \u201esex\u201c v\u00a0n\u00e1zvu profese se l\u00e9pe  vyj\u00edm\u00e1 v\u00a0jeho roli televizn\u00edho bavi\u010de v\u00a0po\u0159adech s\u00a0lechtiv\u00fdmi t\u00e9maty a  postavy televizn\u00edch reklam na prost\u0159edky pro mu\u017eskou potenci.<\/p>\n<p>Nev\u00edm, jak Uzel je\u0161t\u011b dnes krom\u011b estr\u00e1d st\u00edh\u00e1 profesi gynekologa, ale  v\u00edm, jak ji st\u00edhal kdysi d\u00e1vno. Gynekolog \u010dasto \u0159e\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 zdravotn\u00ed  probl\u00e9my a stoj\u00ed i p\u0159ed slo\u017eit\u00fdmi dilematy. Nap\u0159\u00edklad jestli radik\u00e1ln\u011b  zbavit \u017eenu n\u011bkter\u00fdch gynekologick\u00fdch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed i za cenu, \u017ee u\u017e nikdy  nebude m\u00edt d\u011bti, nebo jestli je mate\u0159stv\u00ed takovou hodnotou, \u017ee stoj\u00ed za  to d\u00e1l zkou\u0161et l\u00e9\u010dbu konzervativn\u011bji. N\u011bkdy u takov\u00fdch dilemat nevysta\u010d\u00ed  jen kasuistiky v\u00a0l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00fdch \u010dasopisech, n\u011bkdy je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed i \u017eivotn\u00ed  ukotven\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Zrovna p\u0159ed takov\u00fdm dilematem st\u00e1l v\u00a0Podolsk\u00e9 porodnici jednoho dne  p\u0159ed 21 lety i gynekolog Uzel. Rozhodl se pro \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed prvn\u00ed a zat\u00edmco  operovan\u00e1 \u017eena teprve p\u0159ich\u00e1zela k\u00a0sob\u011b, pozval si do kancel\u00e1\u0159e jej\u00edho  man\u017eela. Tam mu ozn\u00e1mil, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b u\u017e nebude. Aby str\u00e1ven\u00ed t\u00e9to noviny  zdrcen\u00e9mu man\u017eelovi trochu uleh\u010dil, d\u016fv\u011brn\u011b se k\u00a0n\u011bmu naklonil a \u0159ekl  mi: ale ono to bude m\u00edt i sv\u00e9 v\u00fdhody. T\u0159eba, \u017ee u\u017e nebude menstruovat, a  to pro chlapa taky nen\u00ed k\u00a0zahozen\u00ed, \u017ee, a spiklenecky zamrkal.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e1\u017en\u00e1 spole\u010densk\u00e1 t\u00e9mata by podle \u0160\u0165astn\u00e9ho m\u011bla b\u00fdt vyjmuta ze  spole\u010densk\u00e9 debaty a m\u011bla by b\u00fdt sv\u011b\u0159ena \u201eodborn\u00edk\u016fm\u201c. Kdy\u017e promluv\u00ed  n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd, zesm\u011b\u0161n\u00ed ho \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd jako v\u0161ezn\u00e1lka, co se v\u0161ude cpe se sv\u00fdmi  n\u00e1zory a jen zdr\u017euje na hladk\u00e9 cest\u011b ke sv\u011btl\u00fdm z\u00edt\u0159k\u016fm ve znamen\u00ed  \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch uzl\u016f.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/jakl.blog.idnes.cz\/c\/152140\/Svet-stastnych-uzlu.html#t2\" target=\"_blank\">ZDROJ<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Uboh\u00fd Ond\u0159ej \u0160\u0165astn\u00fd byl redakc\u00ed MfDnes pov\u011b\u0159en naps\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dl\u00e1nku, kter\u00fd by co nejv\u00edc pozur\u00e1\u017eel a zesm\u011b\u0161nil prezidenta republiky, t\u0159eba prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm jeho nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch spolupracovn\u00edk\u016f. 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